Every human being is interesting because we are the greatest species on earth. And the complexity of each one of us makes us unique. Our experiences, our ideas, our relationship and personalities differ. And yes we have a lot in common, and there will be time where you question "what makes me special? what makes me, me??"
Easy. Have you ever read a really good book, or watched a really good movie, where the character had so much depth you inevitable thought...wow, he is the most interesting person on the planet. The truth is everybody is the main character of a book, but sometimes we don't see ourselves as the writer sees us. Imagine for a second, the writer describing in a book how the main character wakes up in the morning. And he writes about how the character drinks his coffee. The small habit is described in a way that goes beyond the consciousness of the character: the coffee gives the character a small reassurance, he loved the taste of it, the way the warmness felt in his mouth, the way there is a bitter after taste that lingered on his tongue etc... Do you see what the writer did? The writer gave meaning to the small habit of the character. So how do we ultimately perceive ourselves as interesting?
Being interesting requires paying attention, to yourself. Self-awareness gives us greater meaning. If we can talk about ourselves, if we can enjoy our small quirks, recognize our qualities and small habits, then we are interesting. The truth is giving life meaning may very well be worthless when it comes to truth. And by truth I mean the ultimate truth that everybody seems to be searching for. "Does our life have a meaning?" people ask. Well, it may not have a meaning. We may die, and that's that. That's the end of it. Nothing comes after, nothing came before, and we go on being unwritten in the pages of history. But why ask that question? It's stupid. All you and I need to do is PERCEIVE that our life is special, that ultimately WE ARE COOL.
Yeah, I'm cool. See. It's not so hard to be happy.
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